It is usual for couples who have been together for a long time to experience a slump when it comes to their sexual relations.  Familiarity with each other, with all the comfort it brings, does have its downside too and this usually manifests itself with the activities you do in bed.  To bring back the novelty of your intimate relations try something new.  There are several unique foreplay methods you can try to bring the flame back into your relationship.

Keep in mind that when we say “unique foreplay” we don’t necessarily mean foreplay techniques you have to make up by yourself, though there is nothing that should stop you from coming up with ideas should you have some yourself.  Indeed, when it comes to sex, your creativity and imagination are the only limits.  Are you a stingy lover?  Don’t be.  Stinginess can be a virtue when it comes to material things but never should it come into play during your intimate moments with your partner.  The time and effort you put into it will be well rewarded.

When we say “unique foreplay” we mean foreplay techniques you or she or the both of you have not yet tried out or experienced.  Practically everyone knows about oral sex and other physical means to stimulate the erogenous zones of your partner or even using bondages during foreplay.  What we normally ignore or do not practice are the non-physical types of foreplay---those that get your mind in the mood for some passionate loving.

The definition of foreplay includes non-physical activities which generate or deepen sexual arousal.  For instance, both of you can cuddle up in a couch and watch a sexy movie or read dirty stories together to help both of you get in the mood.  Just double check the movie or story you acquire.   Keep her preferences in mind when doing your selection to ensure that both of you enjoy the experience.

There are many everyday things and activities that we can use for foreplay too.  Eating and food are good places to start.  Try feeding each other sensuously while in bed.  Somehow chocolate syrup or honey tastes better when it is being licked off the finger, tummy, or some other body part of you special someone. . If both of you are a little more adventurous you can try this at a public park or at a café.  Just make sure there is a private secure place both of you can quickly retire to when things get too hot.  A creative foreplay can always be a great playtime for couples.