When using a gay sex toy, especially one that is used for anal insertion, one thing that you should remember is to make use of plenty of lubrication. This will prevent discomfort as well as tearing. The kind of lubricant that you should use depends on the material that your toys are made of. If, for instance, they are made of silicone, then you can use water-based lubricants. Never use silicone lubricants on your silicone-made toys as the lube will start to dissolve them.  

Another thing to take into consideration is proper hygiene. As much as possible, do not share toys so as to prevent the spread of any sexual infection. And, make sure that you properly wash a toy with warm water after using it. Be sure, though, that it is well-dried before putting it back to its container to avoid  it from getting molds. Rolling a condom onto it can also help keep it free from virus and bacteria.

While you can get your desired sex toy from your local store, you can also get one from an online store. If you are not that yet comfortable in personally buying adult toys from a local shop, then you can go online as there are thousands of websites that sell them. If you are a beginner, you can make better purchases if you get yourself informed first. The Internet provides tons of articles that provide different kinds of information on adult toys, so take advantage of them.

So what is the kind of toy for gays that suit you? Well, it depends on your preference. Descriptions of a particular product is generally provided, so you can make them as references. Reading product reviews can also help.

Among the common toys used by gays are dildos. They are made to simulate the sensations that a penis produces when inserted into the anus. Hence, they are primarily penis-shaped. Dildos made of silicone and Cyberskin are more realistic, but they are generally the more expensive dildos.

Butt plugs are also common. They are also anal insertion toys, which are used to stimulate the nerve endings in the rectum. Usually, they are shorter than dildos, have recessed neck and a flare at the base, and they come in different sizes and design. Vibrating butt plugs are also available.

A gay sex toy may also come as a string of anal beads, cock rings, penis extensions, and bondage gear.